The happy bridesmaid...

That sounds like the perfect oxymoron, but think about it. How many weddings have you been in where you weren't allowed to look like yourself??? Enough with this trend. Bridesmaids are supposed to feel just as good about your day as you do. You want them to smile convincingly in your photos, don't you? They don't want to be little clones, they want to enhance your wedding. Nobody likes to be an afterthought. So, be a gracious bride and allow your bridesmaids to contribute. Keep the dresses in the same color family but play with different tones, or try complimentary colors. If you choose to keep the same color throughout, play with shapes. Allow your bridesmaids to add their own touches. Different accessories never hurt anyone. A modern wedding is all about those personal touches.
Consider JCrew for some bold colors and shapes. David's Bridal even has a color coordinating tool. Check it out here. If you're planning an outdoor wedding, you can be even more creative. Mix solid colored dresses with printed dresses in the same tones. The possibilities are endless. Don't believe for a second that you have to have same old same drab bridesmaids dresses for your girls. Have fun with it.
My bridesmaid's dress was an aqua blue evening gown from Caché. (see picture in "Dani's perfect day" post) You can also find great affordable options at JCPenney. More great sites to come.